Measuring The Time Since Deathly Hallows: In Friendship

Wednesday, July 18th, 2012 | Author: Heather

I spent this past weekend with my good friend Kara. I met Kara at LeakyCon 2009 and we’ve managed to see each other at least once a year since. So this seems like the perfect time to talk about something that is one of the most important aspects of Harry Potter to me: the friendships.

I’ve been reading Harry Potter for 12 years and in that time the fandom has changed a lot. The websites have become more professional, the movers and shakers have changed, and lord knows we’ve gotten older. But the thing that has stayed the same is the sense of belonging that you get from the people.

I’ve found that wherever I am, in whatever situation, whomever I’m trying to connect with, if they like Harry Potter then we can get along based on that mutual ground. Maybe I’m just biased, but people who like Harry Potter are, on a whole, nicer, smarter, and more interesting than people who don’t.

And maybe that’s why I’ve met so many of my best friends through Harry Potter. When I went to LeakyCon in 2009 it was like going home. It was like going to the Burrow. I felt like Harry when he first entered Hogwarts and people were chanting his name. I felt understood and like I belonged.

Harry Potter has become so much more than a book series. It has become a method of connecting people across the world. I have friends in Nevada and Germany and Brazil and Canada who I never would have met if it weren’t for Harry Potter. If someone had told me while I counted down until midnight on July 21st, 2007 that I would be meeting people like Adam and Hollie and Thio in just a couple short years, I wouldn’t have believed them. Because growing up I thought that no one would ever be able to understand me like my Harry Potter books do. But my HP friends do. They completely get it. They get the stress and the anticipation and the anguish and excitement and joy and everything else that comes with being a Harry Potter fan. Because they’ve felt it, too. And everyday I’m grateful that my younger self was wrong about that.

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